Work family = second family?

Family is a word that holds sacred meaning to many. Most use it in regard to their birth family, such as parents, relatives, etc. Others, however, exploit the essence and extend it to anyone they feel close to.

Whichever group you belong to, one thing is sure – millennials (those born between 1981 and 1996) nowadays comprise the largest generation on the market with almost 40% of the workforce share and according to Forbes “happiness of millennials at work seems intrinsically linked to the quality of the relationships they foster there.” Premiere Global Services (PGI) compiled data and created an infographic from surveys of 220 GlobalMeet customers which found that 71% of millennials want their co-workers to be like their second family.

But even if possible, is it a good idea? Colliding the two main segments of your day-to-day life and interactions could be the key to finding that work-life harmony you always strived for or the key to its destruction.

Let us first point out when colleagues should be like a family, when they should not and what the ramifications are in either case.

Family is traditionally associated with care, attention, acceptance, help, and unconditional devotion. It is clear why employees would like to feel like they are surrounded by family at work. As humans, we seek and expect such treatment in our immediate environment.

Therefore, as an employee, one goes into ­work every day with the expectation that he/she would be accepted, treated well, and cared for. On the other hand, the employer hires with the assumption that the staff will be devoted to the workplace and work in its best interest at all times. To achieve such high standards, all personnel should follow some basic guidelines:

Second family

Having a close relationship with your co-workers brings numerous benefits, yet it comes with its territory. While in the past, the skill set of an employee was prioritized when hiring, in recent years culture fit is becoming increasingly important. This has brought several new layers to how companies select talent.

Work family

Stemming from better collaboration and higher work satisfaction levels, companies rely on the possible friendships employees will create to boost their company’s overall performance. This belief has grown within both top management and regular staff to the extent that a mismatch within this culture realm can break not only the work family collegiality within the team but the cultural misfit’s place within the organization as well. Workers that feel comfortable in a specific environment guard it from possible intrusions that might mess with the achieved harmony.

Everyone should keep in mind that there are several critical differences between one’s birth and work family. While your relatives are “assigned” to you, work relationships are fundamentally different. Each member of this unity is in it by choice and can dictate to a large extent what the outcome of the partnership might be. This is where group dynamics and company politics could present not only benefits but also challenges. Team members may express subjective favoritism leading to inter-team tension founded on personal conflicts rather than strictly work matters.

To wrap up, while becoming increasingly closer to your peers has a positive effect on your wellbeing and the commitment towards the job, it must be taken with a grain of salt. Sometimes while being busy trying to prove the loyalty to the company, we fail to take care of ourselves as individuals. There is a place for friendships and close relationships within the office. Still, it should never be forgotten that a well-balanced scorecard approach is needed when combining strategic business decisions with personal affairs. The ultimate goal should be to strive for creating a positive and fostering environment while taking precautions regarding the possible negative consequences.

Work family may not necessarily be equal to (=) second family, but leaders need to ensure their culture allows it to get as close as possible (≈).

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Margarite Schindler